Pre-Login Handshake Error Connecting to SQL Server 2012 through VS 2012 -

Pre-Login Handshake Error Connecting to SQL Server 2012 through VS 2012 -

so i'm trying connect sql server 2012 instance running on local server running windows server 2012 through visual studio 2012's sql server object explorer. can connect through other computers, locally , remotely, fine, reason desktop gives me lovely error:

"a connection established server, error occurred during pre-login handshake. (provider: ssl provider, error: 0 - wait operation timed out.) (microsoft sql server, error: 258) - wait operation timed out."

i'm using sql server authentication in ss2012, unencrypted, etc. i'm not sure info include, i'm sure it's stupid issue, life of me can't find solution. searches give me bunch of old hell results.

have tried qualified domain name?

looks dns issue

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